The book was given the endorsement of Mr. Fred Engh, President & CEO, of the National Alliance of Youth Sport


Mr. Fred Engh “believes as caring coaches, parents and administrators of programs, it is our responsibility to ensure that every child enjoys a positive experience in whatever activity they choose”

He recently called my story an "idyllic journey of joy and life's lessons through children's sports.” He also said that the book “says a lot about sports and growing up"

Sunday, January 4, 2015

The words "good job"

Simmons uses the example of parents watching their kids playing on a playground. When the child goes down the slide, the parents cheer. But Simmons points out that there is no reason for celebration. Gravity did all the work, not the child. And that is what Fletcher touches upon in the film. He tells the student protagonist, Andrew, that all he wanted to do was push someone far enough to become great. When he ponders why jazz is disappearing, why there are no extreme talents like there once were, he blames it on those two little words, ‘good job’. 

A story referencing Charlie Parker's dedication often comes up during the film about how Jo Jones threw a cymbal at Parker after the young Parker messed up a set. Parker vowed to come back better, and practiced relentlessly until his next performance where he played one of the best sets ever heard. While Simmons does not commend abuse, and Terence Fletcher is definitely abusive, I have to agree with Simmons and his character's idea that over-praising is probably more harmful that criticism. 

It’s far too prevalent though. Why does everyone get a sticker on their homework just for completing it? Shouldn’t completing your homework be expected? Shouldn’t stickers be given to those going above and beyond? Regardless of whether or not you agree with the dangerous overuse of the words ‘good job’ within our modern society,Whiplash is a brilliant film that explores the depths a person will go to fulfill their dreams, and well worth a watch. 

What do you think about the words, "good job" ?